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Friday, December 31, 2010

Goodbye 2010, Hello 2011

Well it's New Years Eve. It kinda feels like it always is. There are things I love about NYE, such as confetti and friends and kissing someone at midnight. But there are things I hate about it too. I hate the fact that when I look back at the year there are lots of things I didn't do that I wanted to do, resolutions that never got done, places I never went. Maybe if a year was the length of two years I'd have a fair shot. It's always around the beginning of December that I really want to make this year one for the books...but then there is
Christmas to worry about and instead I start making a new list of goals and resoultions for New Years Eve. Oh well, time marches on...

So anyway, here we are. Time to look back at 2010. I posted on my FB earlier this month that "2010 was a year". Cause that's what it was. I couldn't bring myself to say it was a good year, but I also can't say it was a bad year. It was an eventful year, yes...eventful is a good word for it. I think I'll make a list, I'm good at making lists, just ask Ian....

Things that Happened in 2010:
(in no particular order)

  • Got lost in San Fransisco with my girlies.
  • Saw Wicked, my first Broadway quality musical.
  • Dyed my hair for the first time, then later for the second time.
  • Got buzzed for the first time, did first Ray Charles impression (allegedly).
  • Tiptoed through the tulips.
  • Saw BOTH Fullhouse houses.
  • Met the one and only Staso.
  • Yelled at a lady at Burger King, "I WANT 10!"
  • Apologized for scaring a lady at Burger King.
  • Drove to Camarillo for the first time by myself.
  • Got to show my sister Megan all my favorite places on the Central Coast.
  • Went to the Hollywood Bowl and saw Rent with like a million other people.
  • Started a blog just so I could tell everyone how awesome it was.
  • Got a Kitten.
  • Tried to give away a kitten.
  • Decided that I could live with a kitten.
  • Had an heartwarming birthday weekend.
  • Discovered the band Airborne Toxic Event.
  • Realized how wonderful the show Community is.
  • Got to be a brides maid for the first time.
  • Watched my best friends get married.
  • Witnessed first hand the power of friendship.
  • Started writing again.
  • Got a second job.
  • Remembered how much I love making coffee for other people.
  • Got a trophy girl friend.
  • Found the true meaning of Christmas.
  • Lots of other stuff that I can't write because it would be 2011 by the time I was done.
Things I learned in 2010:

  • That when it comes down to the things that matter your friends are going to be there to get you through.
  • That the worst thing you can do is stop trying.
  • That the way I feel isn't always the only thing that matters.
  • Jersey sheets are the BEST!
  • That life doesn't stop and people grow up and move on, even if you don't want them too.
  • Life is short.
  • When your husband says it's not a good idea to get a kitten he's not necessarily just saying that to be mean to you, and that he's most likely right.
  • That people can change, even if its just a little. That a little bit can be just enough.
  • That if you have a few ants in your car, you most likely have a whole colony of ants in your car and they are probably living in that Office boardgames in the back seat.
  • That creating a blog is easy, writing in it regularly isn't.
  • When kittens climb to the top of a Bow Flex, they have a hard time getting back down. (I'm learning this one right now.)


As 2010 passes into the rear view mirror I want to take the last few moments to set some goals for 2011, that way next year I'll have something to write about.

Things I want to do in 2011:

  • See the inside of a jail.
  • Make a random stranger smile.
  • Write a letter to one person in my life every month telling them what they mean to me.
  • Go on a crazy adventure.
  • Travel to a state I've never been in.
  • Keep my dishes done.
  • Finish at least 75% of the things I start.
  • Lose some weight.
  • Do something I didn't think I could do.
  • Be a great friend.
  • Make Ian think he has the best wife ever for at least 5 minutes.
  • Write in my blog more often.

To all of my faithful readers out there, I want to wish you the best of luck in the new year. I hope you have some adventures of your own. And remember not to take life for granted, you only get one. Much Love!